Why would a spouse cheat if the marriage is good?

Grass looks green elsewhere - begins the cheating - And to get what - ? SEX.

For exciting and intensely satisfying sex that is deprived or denied or not understood of each other's needs - quick judgments " My husband watches porn " If it's not porn - it's his drinking - he spends more time with his friends- he doesn't share the work around the house - he doesn't talk - doesn't respect my family - not working enough - Headaches - Fibromyalgia- TMJ - size - ED and the list grows from a page to a size of 2 PDR's.

Point being - Marriage seems to be good to others - it's not - it has no passion in it - and two people come to live together as room mates and share their expense - to keep their secret from others the lips get sealed - of having separate beds and separate accounts

How would you feel if your friend confided in you that she is cheating on her husband, knowing that he loves her deeply? What emotional and ethical considerations would you grapple with in response to her revelation?

so begins the first step heading towards separation and divorce which becomes the battle ground- my TV - my sofa - my bed - my - my - my ……..

My own imperfections is not the reason - you see …. !

Millions of excuses - Reasons - constant fighting - arguments- And always something wrong with the other- no self reflection -

Orchestral Music: How well synchronised in time do musicians have to be to sound as if they are playing together?

Nothing perfect - It's not acceptable if it's not perfect - but only the other one !